“Civilization is a stream with banks. The stream is
sometimes filled with blood from people killing, stealing, shouting and doing
the things historians usually record, while on the banks, unnoticed, people
build homes, make love, raise children, sing songs, write poetry and even
whittle statues. The story of civilization is the story of what happened on the
banks. Historians are pessimists because they ignore the banks for the river.
-Will
Durant
Recently, I
was talking with a friend who sells advertising for our local newspaper. We were mostly talking about work, and as our
discussion circled around to flowers he said what seemed like a simple
statement, but it has stayed with me now for a couple weeks.
He said,
“Whenever I have fresh flowers in my house, I feel rich.”
I just love
this thought, the fact that a $5.99 bunch of flowers can make someone feel
rich. I asked my friend a follow up question,
“Rich like
Warren Buffet or Bill Gates?”
He replied,
“No, rich like my life is great.”
We continued
to discuss how simply remembering to pick up a bunch of flowers at the market,
snipping a few blooms from your yard or grabbing a bouquet as you pass by a
florist can have a great impact on your personal outlook, as well as, on your
family, friends and coworkers.
A few years
back researchers at Rutgers University showed in a study
that fresh flowers make you feel happy. However, thinking about how flowers affect
my friend, it is as if the flowers make him feel contented and wealthy in his soul. Not affluent in financial terms, but in his
heart.
I am one of
those people that often day dreams about winning the lottery, yet never buys a
lottery ticket. I would be a fabulous philanthropist and do all sort of cool things. However, I know I don’t buy lottery tickets
so these ideas are generally just my lizard
brain getting in the way of actual work.
I do keep
flowers around the house, and lately I’ve been thinking about all the millions
of people who buy Powerball and Lotto tickets with the dream of striking it
rich. What if all these folks just bought flowers instead? Many articles
and studies have also shown lottery winners aren’t as happy as one would think.
My
recommendation is for everyone to take their weekly Powerball or Lotto budget
and buy flowers.
With flowers
you get a guaranteed return, you can smell them and touch them and watch them
bloom. Maybe not quite the adrenaline
rush of needing one more "lucky horseshoe" to win twenty bucks on a
scratch off ticket, but the fulfillment of experiencing flowers in your home or
office is a much better bet in the long run.
Flowers are
healthy, they don’t make false promises and they deliver nourishment to your
soul. For the price of a fancy coffee drink, they will watch over you all week and
remind you that no matter what your bank account says, you are rich.
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